The natural wetness in the mouth, and the variety of textures created by the tongue and lips, creates a really dynamic set of tools for stimulation. Can I? Not all blow jobs will, or should, end in orgasm. One of the realities of oral sex is that your eyes and nose are very close to, well, the show. This can be thrilling or, perhaps, a bit overwhelming. But be prepared to get to know the penis before you quite well.

First step: Stop thinking of it as a job. Done correctly, oral sex can be satisfying for both of you — so long as you follow this sage advice. Everybody wins! It sounds intimidating, but the payoff is worth it.

Yes, even foreplay needs a little Beforeplay. Try e xploring their body with your mouth first, gently kissing their stomach and thigh s before finally letting your lips touch the t ip of their penis. Make lube your friend. Most of ours are suitable for oral and means you can both enjoy a smoother sensation without worrying about drying out — you could even add some fun with flavoured lubes.

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